Friday, November 22, 2019
Why Therell Never Be a Perfect Time to Write
Why Therell Never Be a Perfect Time to Write Why Thereââ¬â¢ll Never Be a Perfect Time to Write Why Thereââ¬â¢ll Never Be a Perfect Time to Write By Ali Hale One day, youââ¬â¢re going to write that novel thatââ¬â¢s been tugging at your sleeve. One day, youââ¬â¢re going to start posting regularly on your blog. One day, youââ¬â¢re going to finish that ebook you started. One day Trust me, I know how you feel. For years, I wanted to be a writer, but I didnââ¬â¢t actually write. I had lots of ideas and dreams, but they never made it out of my head and onto the page. Why? Because I was waiting for the perfect time. I thought that Iââ¬â¢d suddenly, magically, find myself inspired. Great chunks of free time would materialise from nowhere, without any effort on my part. Guess what? It never happened. If youââ¬â¢re struggling to find the time (and energy) to sit down and write, then take heart. Youââ¬â¢re not alone ââ¬â in fact, ââ¬Å"finding time to writeâ⬠is the most common issue that Iââ¬â¢m asked about when Iââ¬â¢m coaching writers. Hereââ¬â¢s why thereââ¬â¢ll never be a perfect time: #1: Writing is a High-Resistance Activity Iââ¬â¢ve been writing for a living for three years (Iââ¬â¢ve completed a novel in that time too), and I still find myself reluctant to get going when I sit down to write. Writing isnââ¬â¢t easy. It takes mental energy ââ¬â and often emotional energy, too. For most of us, the writing process is also a thinking process: for instance, if youââ¬â¢re putting together a ââ¬Å"Hire Meâ⬠page for your blog, youââ¬â¢ll have to get completely clear about what exactly you offer, what you charge, and so on. There are an awful lot of activities that feel much easier than writing. Doing the housework. ââ¬Å"Networkingâ⬠on Twitter. Making a coffee. Sure, youââ¬â¢ll have the occasional day when youââ¬â¢re filled with inspiration and you canââ¬â¢t wait to get to the keyboard. But those days are pretty rare. #2: Writing Requires Concentration and Privacy Finding the perfect time to write isnââ¬â¢t the only issue at hand. You might also need to find a good place. Itââ¬â¢s very tough to write if youââ¬â¢re sitting on a sofa with your laptop while the televisionââ¬â¢s on and housemates or family members are chatting. I personally find it almost impossible to write at all if anyone can see my screen (even if theyââ¬â¢re not deliberately watching) ââ¬â and I know that a lot of writers feel the same way. To feel secure enough to write, you need a certain amount of privacy. The perfect place isnââ¬â¢t going to appear from nowhere. You might hold out hopes for a magical day when your family do the chores, clear off to the park and leave you in peace to write but is that really going to happen? #3: Writing Is Important but (Usually) Not Urgent Your writing is important ââ¬â even if no-one else seems to think so. If you get that novel finished, it could be the first step on a lucrative new career. If you write regularly on your blog, youââ¬â¢ll establish a strong online platform. And if you finish that ebook, youââ¬â¢ll have something to sell to your blogââ¬â¢s readers. Beyond that, your writing is important because itââ¬â¢s part of who you are. Iââ¬â¢d hazard a guess that youââ¬â¢re happy when you manage to write ââ¬â and dissatisfied when weeks or months go by without any writing. The problem is, ââ¬Å"write novelâ⬠probably isnââ¬â¢t the most urgent thing on your to-do list. Less significant but more time-pressing tasks ââ¬â like doing the chores, or fulfilling commitments that youââ¬â¢ve taken on ââ¬â are pushing writing down and down the list. So What Can You Do? Stop waiting for the perfect time. Instead, make a commitment to find two hours during the next week when you can write. There are 168 hours in a week ââ¬â you can take two of those to do something that really matters to you. Perhaps they wonââ¬â¢t be the perfect time ââ¬â but theyââ¬â¢ll be far better than nothing. Good luck with your writing! Ali Hale is a writing coach and founder of our Freelance Writing Course. If youââ¬â¢d like some help finding time to write, she has a free mini-ebook How to Find Time For Your Writing, available when you join her newsletter list. (Youââ¬â¢ll also get weekly writing tips and encouragement and occasional extra free ebooks ââ¬â all straight to your inbox, all completely free.) You can find out more about the newsletter, and sign up, here. Want to improve your English in five minutes a day? Get a subscription and start receiving our writing tips and exercises daily! Keep learning! Browse the Writing Basics category, check our popular posts, or choose a related post below:12 Types of LanguageWork of Art Titles8 Great Podcasts for Writers and Book Authors
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